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Let’s Talk About . . . Money

Of course, there’s no way to cover such a broad topic at once, so I imagine this one will be spaced out over many posts and over much time. But seeing as we’re in some pretty sketchy economic times, with people struggling to get by, it seems an appropriate topic. So, today, let’s talk about (very) basic money management.

“A penny saved is a penny earned,” says the wisdom of old. And it’s true, no doubt. But it, like most things in life, is a far cry more difficult done than said. But there are a number of things we can do to make it easier to get by, even prosper. I’ll outline a few of those today.

First and foremost, you HAVE to gain an understanding of your own financial situation. How much do you make a month? How much do you spend? Is the that first number smaller than the second? If so, you’ve got a problem. But don’t worry. You aren’t alone. And while I know that seems elementary, my time spent working as a bank teller taught me that there are a vast number of people who fail to understand this. There are a few useful tools to do this. Mint is an excellent tool, which lets you add all of your various bank accounts, credit cards, loans, investments, etc. If anyone else knows of another tool that works as well as Mint, please let me know. If you’re not too keen on giving all your bank account login info to a third party, I understand. I’m not either, but I did it anyway, and I have not had any problems so far.

So. Look at your income. (If you’re an hourly employee who doesn’t always work quite the same number of hours, average your hours/week for the last few months and go from there). Look at your expenses. Subtract the two, and that’s how much available or liquid money you have. If you don’t like the look of that number, don’t worry. You aren’t alone. It’s an easy place to be these days. We’ve entered a subscription hungry era in technology. Netflix, Hulu, Spotify, Web Hosing, Internet, Cell Phones with Data plans. There’s a lot of little expenses that can really add up. Plus, gas and food costs are constantly going up, so it’s a hard game of which to stay ahead. And if you’re discovering you don’t have quite the liquid income you’d like, you’ll have to cut back a little bit.

So. Look at what is NECESSARY. Rent/Mortgage, Car Payment, Electric, Water, Food, Gas: these will keep you alive and with a job. What’s pretty important for your professional life / livelihood? Cell phone (Or some phone), internet, . Now, add all those up, and subtract it from your income. How’s that look? Better? Good.

Now, what’s completely unnecessary that you’d like to keep? Data plans? Hulu? Netflix? Cheese of the Month Club? What of these things can you live without? Consider this when looking at what you might cut: if you make $10/hr at your job, those Hulu and Netflix subscriptions will cost you at least 2 hours of your life a month. Have discs with netflix? You’re looking at 3 or 4 hours of your life a month. Is it worth that much to you? How about that Cheese of the month club? You’re donating 3 hours a month to new and exciting cheeses. It makes it easier to decide what to live without.

Now, here’s another thought: What if your car breaks down? You get a ticket? Did you include that up there in your list of necessary expenses? Probably not, and you’re not alone with that either. So you’ll need to make sure that you have enough “free” money left over to save up a little for those unfortunate surprise expenses.

If you don’t have one already, I suggest you go talk to your bank or credit union about a savings account. Find out what the requirements are, and figure out how quickly you can meet them to avoid having any fees. Then, every time you get paid, take some small amount from your paycheck and put it in the savings account. $5, $10, $500. Whatever you can afford. It may seem insignificant, and that’s good. You want it to be. It needs to be money you won’t notice as missing. If you do too much, you risk having to pull from savings, and if you get in that habit, you’ll never save anything. So, make it something you know you can handle, and as you adjust to the change, you’ll find you can keep doing more. That way, when you do have an emergency situation, you don’t jump for the credit cards or worry where it’s going to come from.

Now. I realize this is not always possible. Sometimes, those necessary expenses are bigger than your income without anything left over for the kind of necessary ones and certainly none for the unnecessary ones. In such instances, I’m afraid I may not be much help. Your options are slim, but you have to look for ways to reduce the expenses to fall more inline with your income. Is there somewhere with cheaper rent? Do you have a car payment you can reduce by trading in/down? Can you get enough internet in your area for free without having a subscription at home? I’m open to lots of input here.

This post hasn’t even scratched the surface, but it’s give us a good starting point. The biggest thing to remember is so simple its ridiculous to say, but its implications are far reaching, and it’s often very difficult to put into practice. SPEND LESS THAN YOU MAKE. That’s it.

Am I full of it? Let me know. Got a strategy that works for you? Let all of us know. Worried that I didn’t cover a topic? Let me know, I’ll get to it some time. Let’s talk. What’s troubling you about your financial situation?

Party

(This post is inspired by Reverb10)

December 9 – Party Prompt: Party. What social gathering rocked your socks off in 2010? Describe the people, music, food, drink, clothes, shenanigans.

Party. “a social gathering, as of invited guests at a private home, for conversation, refreshments, entertainment, etc.: a cocktail party.” (dictionary.com) Not pictured: Me.

I’m not a big social butterfly. I’m more comfortable with my laptop and a blanket than I am in trendy clothes with a bunch of people and loud music. It’s not that I don’t enjoy some company from time to time, but parties are so very often so impersonal and shallow. They get dominated by the most flamboyant, leaving the wallflowers like me to stand around awkwardly, wondering how long I need to stay before I can leave without being rude.

So, I can’t think of a single party I attended in 2010. And that’s just fine. I went, on several occassions out to dinner with a couple friends. I had a few friends over to the house and made them dinner. We had a beer or two, watched some movies. Had a good time. But no loud music. No rambunctious people. Just good times. Good friends.

Maybe my problem is I’ve never been to the right kind of party. But at nearly every one I’ve ever been to, I always just end up feeling awkward and left out. So, down with the parties, I say. Up with the smaller get-togethers. One or two people. Some good food, good beer, and even better conversation.

2010 In a Word

To sum up the last year in a word, I would have to choose “regrouping.”

When January rolled around, I was just about 4 months into my current job, a job in which the typical training period is about 3 months. I was still learning, still experiencing new situations, and in the midst of what seemed like constantly changing coworkers. It was topsy-turvy, and I wasn’t so sure about it.

Honestly, I’m still not. I’m in an industry I never expected to be, but when I took the job, I was desperate. I was just coming out of 10 months of near-unemployment, and the bills were piling up. I had some work, but it was pretty sparse, and money was pretty tight. But, along came this job , and suddenly we were able to shift out of mere survival and actually work for some of the things we wanted.

And while we bought the house in 2009, we were able to put some work into the house this year. We bought new furniture, filled in some bare spots on the walls with pictures and art, mounted the TV to the wall, put in some home theater equipment. It’s been great turning this house into a home. We were able to take a vacation, and put some money in savings.

It’s been a welcome change of pace, and we’ve been able to regroup, and make some plans to make life even better down the road.

I don’t mean to say that 2009 was at all a bad year, a lot of it just seemed like a rat-race, especially since I was at home so much, what with the being unemployed and everything. Here’s hoping to an even better 2011, with an emphasis on growth, rather than regrouping.

(This post is inspired by Reverb10)

NaBloPoMo Day 24: Day to Day

I’ve never been much of a morning person. I mean, I know what mornings are. I’ve had to endure many of them as I made my way to 8AM classes and whatnot. But, I never liked them. I still don’t, really, I’d rather be up into the wee hours and wake up early afternoon instead, but now that I’m grown up, I can’t do that any more.

In any event, I’ve been setting my alarm for 6:30 every morning for the past couple weeks. This has allowed me some extra peace throughout the day, as I get my blogging done, I read up on blogs, and I make a few comments here or there. Then, I move on to working on this or that, whatever needs to get done. It’s really been pretty nice, even if it’s difficult to get up at such an ungodly hour.

But yesterday, I discovered something amazing about getting up with so much time to spend before having to get ready for work: naps. That’s right. Yesterday, I took a nap before 10AM. I did my usual thing, I got my chores done, then I had extra time! So I took a nap. From 9:00-9:30, I experienced that oft-hoped for nap that I hated so much when I was 5.

When I woke up, I felt refreshed and energized, ready to begin my day. Only, I had already begun my day! I had already accomplished a few tasks and was ready to move into the tedium of the day job. So. The moral of the story?

If you want to start your day off right, forget a big, full breakfast. Forget coffee. Get some stuff done, ZEN HAVE A NAP.